A Story of Learning to Assert Myself

Years ago, when my office was at Purvis Street, a popular restaurant opened downstairs and a line would form infront of the only entrance up to my office blocking it every night.

I started having clients walk right past the entrance not being unable to find my unit number, resulting in me spending more wasted time waiting around. At times, my clients would be triggered (coming up in a bad mood and I would be the recipient of it) because they were already feeling emotionally vulnerable and needing to push past the crowd.

Whenever I saw people blocking the entrance, I would try to tell the restaurant staff present that they needed to make sure the line didn’t block the entrance. They didn’t care. I would feel extremely helpless and angry as this happened nightly and I felt I failed to protect my clients.

One night, I decided I needed to escalate this rather than continue being passive aggressive or aggressive about the situation. By then I had been suffering for close to a year about this situation. I wrote into the restaurant through their Facebook account about what has been happening, and how it has resulted in utter misery for me.

I received a quick response. The owners hadn’t known there were offices upstairs. They didn’t know about my efforts to talk to their staff, were apologetic, and said they…