Navigating Herpes Disclosure: Tips for a Responsible and Respectful Conversation

As a sexologist, I have worked with individuals who have herpes and are navigating the dating world. Herpes is a common sexually transmitted infection (STI) that affects millions of people worldwide. While it can be challenging to disclose your herpes status to a potential partner, it’s important to do so in a responsible and respectful way. In this blog post, I will provide some tips on how to disclose your herpes status, including when and how to do it, and resources you can use to support yourself and your partner.

Tip #1: Don’t Disclose Too Early

While it’s important to be upfront about your herpes status, it’s also important not to disclose too early in the dating process. This can be overwhelming for a potential partner and may scare them off before they get to know you. It’s important to build trust and connection with someone before disclosing your herpes status. This may mean waiting until you’ve been on a few dates or have established a deeper connection.

Tip #2: Disclose Outside of the Bedroom

It’s important to disclose your herpes status outside of the bedroom, in a neutral and private setting. This allows your potential partner to process the information without feeling pressured or overwhelmed. It’s also important to…