Virgin No More: How to Make Your First Time a Positive Experience

As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I often get asked by people who are virgins about what they need to consider before having sex. While it’s perfectly normal to feel nervous or anxious about your first time, it’s important to remember that sex is a natural and enjoyable part of life. However, before you take the plunge, there are a few things you should consider to ensure that your first sexual experience is safe, comfortable, and enjoyable.

1. Consent is key: It’s important to understand the concept of consent. Consent means that both partners are willing and enthusiastic about engaging in sexual activity. It’s essential to communicate with your partner and make sure that you’re both on the same page before engaging in any sexual activity. If you’re not comfortable with something, it’s okay to say no.
2. If this is sex before marriage: Reconcile within yourself how having premarital sex sits with you, your culture, and your religion. While sex is a natural and enjoyable part of life, it’s important to consider your personal beliefs and values. If you feel conflicted about having premarital sex, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or family member, or seek advice from a healthcare professional or religious leader.
3. Protection is a must: Using protection is…